Floating in and out.. Hey guys I know you guys have been wondering why I haven't been around much. I've been dealing with a death in the family. Hopefully after the memorial service I'll get back into routine...but it's been a long week last week... and it's still sorta sinking in that my aunt is really gone...
Aw...it takes time. It's different for everyone. It took me a number of weeks to go back to routine when my grandfather died. *lots of hugs*
Sorry to hear about your loss! Give it time and it will be better if you just remember the good things that you loved about her!
Yea..it's been one day at a time.. It sucks though. She was so awesome, and yet she just passed away so suddenly. I saw her like a few days she passed away..and she looked totally fine. And then poof...she's gone..... I think what sucks more is the circumstances in which she passed away. Lot more questions than answers... sigh... I miss her
Of course but be glad she went very quickly instead of suffereing for a long time. Be glad you got the chance to know her for who she was also. At least as a teenager you'll probably know her more than as say a teen. You learn to appreciate the things she taught you to better yourself where as a teen you say okay and walk on. Besides you know where she is now and she'll always look out for you. Plus you have the benefit of thinking now what would auntie tell me about this situation I'm in now and how should I resolve it!
Put aside the thought that the physical body is gone but your memories of her will stay with you for a long time. YOU know she's in a better place!
I remember you telling that to me on MSN, and I was deeply saddened by your family member's death. I have sent (and probably I will send again) my condolence to your family, and I just hope that you will recover from that tragic moment in your life. It is hard to lose someone in your life, especially someone who you actually know by heart... life really comes in opposites: growing and withering, bringing together and falling apart, life and death. Again, my deepest sorrow and condolence to you and your family.
