nannies won't go. I've got three nannies that won't leave my house. I've thought about killing them, but i'm not sure if the people waiting in the car for them will leave. Since the cars are gone, but the people are still standing there. Also I'm not sure how to get married. I got engaged but they never married.
I'm not sure about the nanny problem but with the marriage you can either: 1- click on the other sim and choose propose -- marriage or 2- To have the ceremony you need to buy the wedding arch in buyables under misc or other (not sure what it is called) then parties. After you buy and place the arch click on it and choose get married. If you do it this way you get to go off in a limo for a few hours and come back very happy
Your Nannies are glitched. Delete the Nannies!! use the cheat move_objects on, the go into buy mode and pick them up and delete them.
it happened to me, that some costom made NPCs would end up in a loop and thus slowing down/freezing the whole game you would't get an error message unless you run the testingCheats but I had the dma Teleporter (from Danny's WorkingNPCs)so I just clicked "remove visitors" and gradually removed custom content until I found the "culprit" -le