Attraction ive been messing around with nightlife and its sweet. but im wondering is there a way to get that three lightning bolt attraction with another sim? cuz so far ive only made it as far as 2. im wondering what things i have to observe to get that perfect attraction? does horoscope, job, etc have a say in these things? how bout turn on and turn offs? ive had sims that have 2 lightning bolt attraction but they dont meet eachothers turn on requirements at all
Matching turn ons and turn offs are important, as are matching interests and matching personality points (or at least compatible "signs.")
It's not always predictable. You may have two sims you think are perfect for each other who still only have 2 bolts. They have to have similar personalities. I have sims who don't match any of each other's turn-ons and still have three bolts for each other ... I have others that if they changed their hair color their spouse wouldn't have any bolts for them at all. It really depends. 2 bolt couples can be interesting, though, because they don't mesh perfectly. More chances for conflict ...
I always make sure the turn ons are done according the the guy/gal I want them to be with. For example one of my couples Sydney and Hayley Pump. Both cancer, Sydney likes grey haired women with make up. Hayley likes grey haired men with hats and they have three bolts.
